I love rainy days.

It's the end of October, one of my favorite months. I love the changing weather, wearing a light jacket in the morning but not needing it at lunchtime. Watching the clouds roll in but having the sun shine through for just a few more minutes before the sky opens up and pours rain over every surface of the earth. It doesn't miss any one spot. I always feel like everything is shiny and clean after the rain. Everything is fresh and all of the dirt is washed away.

Two weeks ago, my church had a Women's Retreat in Chantilly, Virginia. I went because the rest of my friends were going, and everyone said it would be a great time. The hotel is five-star, the bonding is exciting, the food is great... I never expected it to have such a profound impact on my life.

Angie Smith is a blogger- she writes "Bring the Rain". She was our speaker, and her story can be found here: www.audreycaroline.blogspot.com In a word, she is grateful. This sweet woman has encountered serious trials, and when I say serious, I mean, how-can-anyone-see-any-good-in-her-situation serious trials. I'll let you read her blog, because I have mascara on today and don't need to cry, and I'm only 1/10 of my way through it, but her premise is simple- she wants to bring glory to God in all that she does. And in all that happens to her. Every thing. She taught me that, it doesn't matter what your circumstances... My Jesus is the same as he was yesterday, a year ago, 2 1/2 years ago, and 100 years from now. My life is not about me... it's about bringing glory to Him. Angie Smith is so much more selfless than I- my plans are still so very important to me, but in the grand scheme of things, I know that God is in control, (not me), and that everything that happens to me, He is allowing because there is a greater purpose. I'm still trying to grasp the concept, but I think I'm on my way. Pray for me.

One of Angie's jewels was this- even if you aren't feeling grateful for your position in life at the very moment, you can still consciously decide to give thanks to God. My opinion of His greatness does not change the facts- he is the Almighty. Whether I'm on my knees giving thanks for all He's done for me or I'm crying to Him for not giving me a positive pregnancy test, He's the same. There's nothing that I can do that will change the simple fact that I am His child and He is my God. I cannot earn any more of His favor by serving the homeless lunch, nor can I lose His love by telling Him that my way is better than His.

It's amazing to think about. My brain is still trying to grasp these concepts. One of the ladies in our discussion group compared it this way- trying to understand God within the scope of our ability to comprehend is like trying to fill a glass with ocean water and telling someone who's never seen it all about it's grandeur.

I'm not there yet... but I want to be. And I'm going to be. God promises.